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when someone dies.

Build a free plan, compare local options, organize the paperwork, and get human support from a certified end-of-life guide. We are not a funeral home. We are on your side.

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“We were completely overwhelmed when my father was placed on hospice. Our doula helped us understand every step, held space for our grief, and made the most painful time of our lives bearable.”
— Jennifer M., Houston TX · Verified Family
Grief Support · Hospice
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We give you a clear, step-by-step plan for what to do — whether a death just happened or you want to plan ahead. No guessing. No overwhelm.

Avoid overpaying

We show you what things should actually cost — funeral homes, cremation, burial, services — so you can make decisions without pressure or surprise markups.

Get human support when you need it

When you want a real person — certified, vetted, compassionate — we connect you with a death doula who responds within 24 hours. No clinical distance.

Certified by & affiliated with

INELDA
International End-of-Life
Doula Association
NEDA
National End-of-Life
Doula Alliance
DONA
DONA
International
NHPCO
National Hospice & Palliative
Care Organization
IDLM
International Doula
Life Movement
NHFA
National Home
Funeral Alliance
GBC
Green Burial
Council
TCP
The Conversation
Project

The numbers

Thousands of families.
One place to find them.

500+
Families
Supported
50+
Certified
Doulas
15+
States
Covered
24hr
Average
Response Time
Coverage

Death doulas in every state.

Click any state to find certified doulas near you.

Darker = more doulas available. Click a state to browse the directory.

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The ecosystem

Every type of support.
All in one place.

The death care world has more support than most families realize. Explore what’s available — and who can help.

The community

500+ families supported.
All five stars.

★★★★★ 4.9 average ·500+ verified family reviews

What families say about their Renidy doula.

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Jennifer M.
Jennifer M. Verified
Houston, TX ·Immediate Need
★★★★★

"We were completely overwhelmed when my father was placed on hospice. Our doula helped us understand every step, held space for our grief, and made the most painful time of our lives bearable."

Grief Support ·Hospice
Marcus T.
Marcus T. Verified
Austin, TX ·Pre-Planning
★★★★★

"I didn't know death doulas existed until I found Renidy. Now I can't imagine going through this without one. She helped us honor my mom exactly as she wanted."

Legacy Planning ·Family
Sandra K.
Sandra K. Verified
Dallas, TX ·Clarity Session
★★★★★

"The clarity session alone was worth everything. We had a plan within 48 hours and felt completely supported through my husband's final weeks."

Clarity Session ·Vigil Care
Patricia L.
Patricia L. Verified
Chicago, IL ·Immediate Need
★★★★★

"As someone who lost my spouse unexpectedly, I needed support immediately. Renidy matched me within hours. My doula was a lifeline I didn't know I needed."

Bereavement ·Concierge
Diane R.
Diane R. Verified
Atlanta, GA ·Pre-Planning
★★★★★

"I was dreading having this conversation with my family. Our doula made it one of the most meaningful afternoons we've ever had together. Zero regrets."

Advance Directives ·Family
Lorraine W.
Lorraine W. Verified
Phoenix, AZ ·Clarity Session
★★★★★

"My mother passed without any of her affairs in order. After working with Renidy, my own plan is complete. I feel a peace I didn't know was possible."

Legacy Planning ·Advance Care
Carlos B.
Carlos B. Verified
New York, NY ·Concierge
★★★★★

"The concierge package covered everything. From the first call to the memorial, our doula was there. Worth every single dollar —and far more than that."

Full Support ·Vigil ·Memorial
CARE
End-of-life support

The right support changes everything.

Death is the most universal human experience —yet most families face it without guidance. A death doula provides the emotional, logistical, and spiritual support that medical systems simply don't offer.

Renidy is the platform that makes finding, vetting, and working with a certified death doula as simple as it should be. Every practitioner is credentialed, vetted, and trained to meet you where you are.

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Families report real outcomes.
Not just comfort.

More peace
89%
Reported reduced anxiety during the end-of-life process
Plans completed
94%
Completed their end-of-life plan within 2 sessions
Would recommend
97%
Would recommend Renidy to another family in need
Match speed
3
Average days from first inquiry to a matched doula

Based on Renidy family survey data, 2024–2025. Individual results may vary.

Meet our doulas

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Anna A. — Death Doula, New York

“I believe in the power of presence. When you can’t fix what’s happening, being truly there — without fear — is everything.”

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★★★★★5.0 · 24 sessions
Anna A.
New York, NY
GriefVigilIDLM
Kirsten A. — Death Doula, Brooklyn

“The end of life doesn’t have to come as a surprise. I help families plan with intention — so when the time comes, you’re ready.”

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★★★★★5.0 · 18 sessions
Kirsten A.
Brooklyn, NY
LegacyPlanningINELDA
Debra G. — Death Doula, Atlanta

“Grief doesn’t have a timeline. I walk alongside families for as long as they need — through the loss and long after.”

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★★★★★4.9 · 31 sessions
Debra G.
Atlanta, GA
GriefBereavementNEDA
Robert A. — Death Doula, Houston

“Every family has their own way of honoring a life. My job is to help you find yours — and make sure it happens exactly as it should.”

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★★★★★4.8 · 12 sessions
Robert A.
Houston, TX
VigilMemorialCeremonies
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Renidy helps death doulas get discovered by families, reduce admin, and grow their practice with tools built for how they actually work — not how a generic platform thinks they should.

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How it works
1
Apply & get verified
Submit your certifications (INELDA, NEDA, IDLM, or equivalent). We review within 3–5 business days.
2
Set up your Pro Dashboard
Define your specialties, availability, and rates. Renidy surfaces you to families that match your expertise.
3
Get matched & grow
Receive warm family introductions. Manage bookings, sessions, and payments —all from one dashboard.
Average doula earnings on Renidy
$2,400+
Per month ·Based on 8–12 sessions ·You set your own rates

Support at every stage.

Whether you need immediate guidance or want to plan ahead, Renidy meets you where you are —with transparent pricing and no surprises.

Free Intro Call

30-min ·No commitment ·Meet your doula
$0 Start here

Clarity Session

60-min deep session ·End-of-life plan ·Priority match
$79
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No credit card required · Free intro call always available

In the news

The world is waking up to
what death doulas do.

deathdoulas.org tracks every major article, interview, and study published about the death doula profession. This is the most complete press archive on the internet for end-of-life doula coverage.

NPR · Fresh Air
2024
“A Death Doula Says ‘Get Real’ About The End”
Terry Gross interviews death doula Alua Arthur on why confronting mortality can help us live more fully — and why families are increasingly seeking death doula support before a crisis forces their hand.
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TIME Magazine
2022
“Death Doulas Used to Be Rare. The COVID-19 Pandemic Changed That.”
How the pandemic drove more Americans to seek death doulas — and why the profession grew faster in two years than it had in the previous two decades, reshaping how families approach end-of-life.
Read →
Washington Post
2026
“7 things to know about the end of life, according to death doulas”
What death doulas want every family to understand before a health crisis arrives — from the practical decisions that matter most to the conversations that are almost always left too late.
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NPR
2023
“End-of-life doulas are working to make conversations about death easier”
How end-of-life doulas are changing the way Americans approach dying — from hospital bedsides to living rooms — and what families say about the difference it makes to have guided support.
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PBS Independent Lens
2023
“End-of-Life Doulas Are Changing How We Die”
A documentary perspective on how end-of-life doulas are reshaping cultural conversations about death in America — and transforming the final chapter for families one relationship at a time.
Read →
YES! Magazine
2019
“How Death Doulas Ease the Final Transition”
The ancient tradition of accompanying the dying is finding new expression — how doulas are reclaiming death as a community experience, and why this shift matters for families everywhere.
Read →
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Public voices

The conversation about death
is finally happening.

Celebrities, authors, and public figures are speaking openly about end-of-life — and why having a guide makes all the difference.

Alua Arthur
Alua Arthur
Death Doula · Author
“Death is not the enemy. It is an inevitability. The question is how we want to live until we don’t.”
NPR Fresh Air TIME Magazine New York Times
Brené Brown
Brené Brown
Author · Grief Researcher
“We don’t have to do grief alone. In fact, we can’t. Connection is how we survive it.”
CBS This Morning The Atlantic Oprah Daily
Atul Gawande
Atul Gawande
Surgeon · Author of Being Mortal
“The dying want to share memories, pass on wisdom, and settle relationships. They want to end their stories on their own terms.”
New Yorker New York Times PBS Frontline
Rainn Wilson
Rainn Wilson
Actor · Author of Soul Boom
“We are terrified of death because we haven’t been taught to understand it. What if we could change that?”
Soul Boom NPR Rolling Stone
Anderson Cooper
Anderson Cooper
Journalist · Grief Advocate
“Grief is really just love with no place to go. The depth of your grief is a testament to the depth of your love.”
CNN 60 Minutes All There Is Podcast
Sheryl Sandberg
Sheryl Sandberg
Author · Option B
“When the unthinkable happens, the support we offer one another — and the guides we have — make the unbearable survivable.”
Option B New York Times TIME 100
Stephen Colbert
Stephen Colbert
Comedian · Loss Advocate
“What punishments of God are not gifts? I lost my father and brothers at 10. That loss became the gift of my life.”
GQ Magazine The Late Show Anderson Cooper 360
Chrissy Teigen
Chrissy Teigen
Model · Author · Grief Advocate
“I know I’m not the only one who had nobody to talk to in that moment. We talk about pregnancy, but never about loss.”
Medium Today Show Vogue
As seen in
Cinema & Culture

Death on screen.
More honestly than ever.

Films and series that changed how we talk about dying, grief, and the people who guide us through it.

The Farewell
2019 · A24
The Farewell
Family & Grief
Coco
2017 · Pixar
Coco
Legacy & Memory
Manchester by the Sea
2016 · Amazon
Manchester by the Sea
Raw Grief
Being Mortal
2023 · Hulu
Being Mortal
End-of-Life Care
Departures
2008 · Oscar Winner
Departures
Death Ritual
Six Feet Under
2001–2005 · HBO
Six Feet Under
Funeral Family
Big Fish
2003 · Tim Burton
Big Fish
Legacy & Story
Tuesdays with Morrie
1999 · ABC
Tuesdays with Morrie
Wisdom in Dying
Listen

Podcasts about death
that actually help.

From grief science to end-of-life planning — these shows are changing the conversation.

Common questions

Real answers to what
families actually ask.

No jargon. No runaround. The things families want to know before they take a step.

No. We are not a funeral home and we have no financial interest in the funeral home you choose. Renidy is an independent platform — we help your family make informed decisions about all your options. That independence is what makes us useful. We work with any funeral home, cremation provider, or burial option your family chooses.

Yes. Your first 30-minute call with a certified doula is completely free. No credit card, no commitment. We also give you a free step-by-step plan for what to do. You only pay if you decide you want more support — a Clarity Session ($79) or full Concierge ($299 flat). Most families start for free and decide from there.

You tell us your situation — someone just died, someone is actively dying, or you want to plan ahead. We give you a free step-by-step plan based on where you are. Then you can talk to a certified doula at no cost. We do not push you into anything. We follow your lead.

Yes. If someone just died or is actively dying, our doulas respond within 24 hours — often within the hour. You do not have to navigate the first hours or days alone. Start by clicking "Build My Free Plan" and telling us your situation. We will move as fast as you need us to.

Not at all. That is exactly what we help with. Most families come to us with no idea what comes next — and that is completely normal. You tell us where you are and we guide you through it. You do not need to have made any decisions, have a plan, or know anything about end-of-life care before talking to us.

Yes, completely. What you share with your doula is private. We do not sell your data, share it with funeral homes, or use it for advertising. Your situation is personal and we treat it that way. All conversations are confidential.

Yes. Death involves a lot of paperwork — death certificates, vital records, advance directives, financial accounts, insurance, estate decisions. Your doula will walk you through what needs to happen, in what order, and what you can handle versus what needs a professional. We also help families organize and store important documents so nothing falls through the cracks.

Yes. We are not affiliated with any funeral home, cremation provider, or cemetery. We help you understand your local options, compare costs, and ask the right questions — so you can choose whoever is right for your family. We are on your side, not theirs.

A death doula (also called an end-of-life doula or death midwife) is a trained professional who provides non-medical support to the dying person and their family. They offer emotional guidance, practical help with end-of-life planning, vigil sitting, grief support, and legacy work — filling the gap that hospitals and the medical system simply don't cover. Think of them as a birth doula, but for the end of life.

The easiest way is through deathdoulas.org — the largest certified death doula directory in the US, powered by Renidy. All doulas in our network are verified through accredited organizations including INELDA, NEDA, IDLM, and DONA International. Search by state, specialty, and availability, and book a free 30-minute intro call within hours — no commitment, no credit card.

On Renidy, your first call is completely free — a 30-minute intro with a certified doula, no commitment required. A 60-minute Clarity Session with a full end-of-life plan is $79. The complete Concierge package — ongoing vigil care, legacy planning, and full family support — is $299 (regularly $2,495). Independent death doulas typically charge $50–$200/hour or $500–$3,000 for a full package.

Death doulas provide: grief support and emotional presence for the whole family; vigil care — sitting with the dying person so no one dies alone; legacy work including life review, legacy letters, and memory projects; practical guidance — what to do immediately after a death, how to navigate paperwork, burial options; advance directives and pre-planning before a crisis; and memorial ceremony support. They do not provide medical care.

No. A hospice worker is a licensed medical professional focused on pain management and clinical care. A death doula is a non-medical companion and guide — they handle the emotional, spiritual, practical, and ceremonial dimensions of dying that hospice doesn't cover. Many families benefit from both. A doula can work alongside hospice to give the family the complete support they deserve.

Through Renidy, families are typically matched within 3 days. For urgent situations — someone just passed away or is actively dying — our doulas respond within 24 hours and can be on a phone or video call within the hour. You don't have to be alone in those first moments.

Reputable death doula certifications include: INELDA (International End-of-Life Doula Association), NEDA (National End-of-Life Doula Alliance), IDLM (International Doula Life Movement), and DONA International. All doulas in the Renidy network are verified against one of these organizations before being listed. Always ask a doula about their training and which organization certified them.

Absolutely — and planning ahead is one of the most loving things you can do for your family. A death doula can guide you through advance directives, living wills, healthcare proxies, end-of-life preference documents, and legacy projects while you're healthy and clear-headed. Most people wait until a crisis forces the conversation. Planning ahead takes enormous burden off the people you love most.

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